Table of contents:
- Sharp memory impairment
- He gives you complete freedom of action
- He does not invite you to his friends
- He criticizes you more than he praises you
- He doesn't care about your opinion
We women tend to sit and reflect for a long time when something goes wrong. Men usually act differently: they just leave one day and start new relationships. We have found 5 sure signs that such a terrible scenario will happen in your life. Maybe you should do it first?
Sharp memory impairment
Your fish, which you once thought was golden, began to acquire all the qualities of a fish: unconsciousness and deep, stupid eyes. Even his mouth just as silently opens when you throw your indignant in his face “Well, how is it, darling? How is that-a-ak? " A man who has fallen out of love has one bad property - his memory gradually weakens. He never remembers what he promised to do to you: buy white bread and pineapples, come home for dinner, about which you chirped to him for a whole week, or simply forgets to compliment his woman. And no, he doesn't develop amnesia. It's just that this particular person does not want to strain to please you.
He gives you complete freedom of action
It would seem that awful? Finally, you can eat unhealthy chips with beer, walk with your girlfriends until morning, and come home from work later - so no problem at all. He doesn’t write you text messages asking, “Where the hell are you?” and "Again with Olya ?!" But do not rush to rejoice in the sudden trust and calmness. It is possible that he just doesn't care. Absolutely indifferent! And it’s even more convenient for him: now he can walk from Friday to Monday night with Vasily and Arkady, without thinking about your feelings (you’re walking with Olya), stay in the office until the night (but what kind of work after eight? He doesn’t save the world !). Now your relationship is more like living in the same apartment with more or less regular sex. But you can forget about warmth and care - he can find all this in other places. And when he finds it, he will notify you about it.
He does not invite you to his friends
And when they see you, friends dull their eyes to the floor and mutter something, they say, "hello, hello," without even trying to find out how you are doing: they already know. Well, of course! Who else can you tell about your insidious intentions before you? To your respected and authoritative friends in the matter of relationships.
Of course, when the guys are going to play poker and have a drink, you have nothing to do there. And why? But if such meetings become regular, and you are given complete freedom, this is a sure signal that your boat has collided with the rocks of indifference.
He criticizes you more than he praises you
He used to say that any clothes suit you - even if you come out in a sack of potatoes, his eye rejoices, his heart beats faster, and in his head there is already a real kaleidoscope of vivid emotions. And now he doesn't like anything connected with you: "not your size, not your style." And you yourself are not "the best". Here Masha from the marketing department is good - higher education, knowledge of rare languages, caring for herself. He closes his eyes to your remarks that Masha’s ass doesn’t enter the door anymore. And your wrinkles and pimples never go unnoticed. And after all, you have not become worse during the time spent with him. Maybe you've gotten even better. He just wants with all his might to quickly get rid of relationships that no longer bring joy. And he does it in the most vile way: he makes you part with him first.
He doesn't care about your opinion
There is only one objective opinion - his, of course. And your opinion is deeply subjective, and be so kind as not to express it when the master did not ask. And keep your mouth shut when he does something that completely contradicts your attitude. And you will be happy - sometimes a man will allow you to be, like an old cat, at his feet.
Sounds disgusting, right? But something like this is built when a man is not interested in your opinion. Of course, he should not consult with you on all the most ridiculous reasons. But he is simply obliged to ask you about plans for the holidays, buying furniture and other serious things. Because a family is two equal partners, where everyone's voice and opinion are important. If you are asked to be silent every time you want to speak, run from him, run.