It definitely happened to you. Or it will happen. Because some love stories are inevitable.
"This is not your level" - familiar words? Of course, they were acquaintances, and it was most likely your dear mother who pronounced them. And they shocked you. Because the 21st century is outside, globalization, millionaires wear plastic slippers, what the hell can there be a misalliance in general? Well, such, ordinary: you meet a beautiful young man who opens you a brave new world, and immediately, of course, you fall in love. Not so much as a young man as in a life completely unfamiliar to you. It's so interesting, so exciting! Before the first conflict situation. In which you immediately realize that a relationship with a guy "not of your level" in practice resembles trying to tame the Alien. Well, I have gained experience. Extreme.
Well, here, in fact, there is nothing special to tell: you just meet by chance, look into each other's eyes, and you understand that this is beyond your strength. And go to bed. If you do not try to make a serious relationship out of this, then in old age it will be possible to describe an ideal romance in your memoirs: you were one whole, you understood each other without words, you were absolutely, uncompromisingly happy. True, not for long. But does it really matter?
You didn't actually have anything. But it could have been, yes. Rather, you thought what could have been, because he is not like everyone else, he is special. And, of course, some banal story about "and they lived happily ever after" could not have happened to him, oh, no. With him it would be something completely different. Unearthly. Magic. If he hadn't been a womanizer, alcoholic and psychopath. And the fact that you secretly sighed for six months and imagined sultry pictures of your life together before going to bed is normal: they - womanizers, alcoholics and psychopaths - are very often good-looking and damn charming. So it is simply impossible not to spin a fictional romance with such a thing. The main thing is not to make dreams come true.
A sad story that every girl dreams of forgetting, but does not work. Because happiness was not just close, it was in your hands. And you didn’t appreciate it, no. You wanted something else, either a pie in the sky, or an unattainable amoeba, as in an immortal novel. The prince, without waiting for reciprocal feelings, disappeared into the fog, and it was then that you realized who you had lost. Late. Too late. However, do not worry: each of us periodically says to ourselves: “Why was I such a fool ?!”, but this does not mean at all that happiness would be guaranteed if you change your mind in time. Not at all.
Not yours at all
Every girl at some point in her life suddenly realizes that she had lived wrongly before. At all. She understands that all her achievements and dreams are dust in the face of eternity. That, in fact, she should not think about her career and self-development, but get married immediately after school and become a mother of many children by 30. Or, on the contrary, the point was to spend the best years of your life (all 23, oh, yes!) Looking for a man for a serious relationship, who cares? It would be better if she left for Tibet, at least she would become enlightened. In general, the virgin understands that it is time to change everything, but she is afraid of one. And then just a man runs through an ownerless one, what luck: into a new life - with a new sweetheart! True, it soon turns out that this new life does not suit her in any way. Generally.
Everyone has ever fallen in love with a man who was completely inaccessible. Moreover, it was more likely some dull, unrecognized genius, “married” to his guitar or some other science, than someone else's husband. A stranger's husband, however, will also do if you really need to. After all, in essence, you do not need this man. You have to overcome and suffer, yes. Fight for your place next to the person who slips away all the time. This is a normal stage, because in reality it is just your personal crisis, reflected in your feelings. Worse if you really decide to catch this inaccessible "prince". Fu-fu-fu, drop byaku!
Bad, bad cat
A classic story: a good girl and a bad boy somehow intersect in the same living space, and some important gear immediately breaks in the girl. Now she certainly needs this very boy, now, immediately! Moreover, there are a lot of others around: smart and well-bred. This is actually a great story, but it should happen in adolescence. Because young bad boys aren't really bad, they're just violent. But the overage bad guys are either scoundrels or victims of evolution: there is strength, no mind is needed. But you already played an affair with the bad guy in high school, right? That's fine. Put a tick in your ballroom book and forget it.
Two weeks for everything
If some young lady tells you that she has never gotten herself into a resort romance, do not believe it. Well, only if she has never rested anywhere, but this, of course, is unlikely: a summer camp, a hike, the first vacation at the sea - every young lady has a full chance of falling in love forever in just two weeks. Especially if a beautiful young man on duty is obliged to be nice and kind to her, to entertain, to protect, and generally to be a prince. It is impossible not to fall in love, of course. And, having fallen in love, it is difficult not to have an affair. Well, then all that remains is to suffer ecstatically, because a cruel fate will certainly separate them. Which, as it usually turns out, is for the best.
Best the enemy of the good
Sooner or later, we all come to a simple and, in general, correct conclusion: the best man is a man to whom nothing needs to be explained. “Husband and wife must be made of the same dough,” oh yes. The problem is that meeting such a man is rare luck. If you succeeded, we advise you to immediately marry him and live happily ever after. And if not, forget it; After all, you probably already tried for some reason to start a relationship with a guy who has known you for a long time and, in general, is very similar to you. It didn't work, right? And this is because relations with former colleagues in the sandbox never change: as you sat in the kindergarten on the neighboring pots, you are still sitting. In this concept of relationships, passion and romance somehow do not fit, and without them, it’s not right, you must agree.
Just a monster
The bastard who broke your heart. A trashy little man, a mouflon and a traitor. Was that one? We know that it was. And we will not now reopen old wounds (perhaps still not healed) and tell you what kind of scoundrel he is. Let's just wish him to quickly join the company of his mental brothers. After all, every young lady, after a relationship with a monster, sooner or later collects herself piece by piece and finds the strength to live on. And yet - he finds the strength to wish the bastard a good journey. And - there is still justice - usually he really goes along this path. Sooner or later, one way or another. So let yours go there. Burn in hell together boys.